My dad, my lover-

My dad, my lover

by farik zolkepli AND jastin ahmad tarmizi

PETALING JAYA: A 46-year-old man has been having sex with his daughter the past three years in their home in Kajang whenever his wife is not around.

The incestuous affair would probably have continued if not for an alert uncle who runs the hair salon where the 21-year-old woman has been working since completing the SPM.

A police source said the relative had borrowed the woman’s mobile phone on Nov 9 to make a call when he saw “steamy” text messages from the father to his daughter.

“The uncle’s phone had run out of battery and he borrowed the woman’s phone to make a call.

“He was shocked to see such messages from the girl’s father and immediately questioned her.

“After continued pressure, she confessed she had been having sex with her father since she was 18. She also revealed she was a willing partner and was in love with him,” the source said.

The uncle brought the woman back to her home and confronted the father in the presence of her mother.

The man only sat in silence while his wife was deeply distraught over the revelation.

“The woman revealed the last time she had sex with her father was in October.

“She also said her father, who runs a food stall in Kajang, gave her money each time after sex,” the police source said.

The source added that at first, the woman was reluctant to lodge a police report.

The uncle, however, brought her to the Kajang police station as he was worried the same fate would befall the woman’s nine-year-old sister.

The man has been remanded until Nov 26 to facilitate investigations under Section 376A of the Penal Code for incest.

The 46-year-old man being led away by police officers in Kajang.

The offence carries a jail sentence of between six and 20 years, and whipping upon conviction.

The woman has been sent to the Kajang Hospital for a medical check-up.

Legal sources said that if the father is charged with the offence, she could also be liable under Section 376A.

“Under the law, if both committed the offence, both can be charged but it all depends on the circumstances of the case.

“It will be up to the Attorney-General’s Chambers to decide whether the woman was a victim or if she should be charged with the offence as well,” the source added.

Under Section 376A, a person is said to have committed incest if he has sexual intercourse with another person whose relationship to him is such that he is not permitted to marry her under the law, religion or custom.

Source :  http://www.thestar.com.my/News/Nation/2013/11/21/Steamy-messages-gave-them-away-Salon-operator-uncovers-hairraising-affair-between-father-and-daughte.aspx

And A view on the Story :

What’s wrong with incest anyway?
By Zan Azlee

 Zan Azlee is a documentary filmmaker, journalist, writer, New Media practitioner and lecturer. He runs Fat Bidin Media www.fatbidin.com

Sex between two consenting adults should not be made a fuss about. A male who is willing and a female who is willing – once they get together, they should be allowed to consummate.

It doesn’t really matter if it is between a father and a daughter. Both are old enough to evaluate the situation,  and if they feel it is okay, then why not ?

Yes, you guessed it! I’m referring to that case hot in the media where a father and daughter who have been enjoying a sexual relationship were caught by an uncle.

The father is 46 years old and at that age, if he still doesn’t have more than enough salt in his system than rice, then I don’t know what to say.

The daughter on the other hand, already 18 years old when she started the 3-year relationship with her father, is legally an adult. Minors are those who are under 16 years.

How can you ever doubt the emotions of love expressed by an 18-year-old girl? Love is a feeling so pure, it should not be curbed and suppressed.

As for the uncle who ousted their relationship, come on! Isn’t there anything better he can to do with his time other than snooping around people’s mobile phone?

And, as for the mother, according to news reports, she is said to have been distraught when the uncle confronted her daughter and her husband in front of her.

Why does she need to feel distraught? Face the facts lady! There must have been a reason why your husband decided to have sex with your daughter.

Maybe she didn’t pay enough attention to her husband? Maybe she didn’t know how to rub his feet after a tired day at work, or she just didn’t know how to rub him anywhere else at all!

If we look at the letter of the law, statutory rape is when you have sex, whether consensual or not, with someone who is underage.

And if we’re still looking at the law, incest is not even stated anywhere. Incestuous rape is punishable by law but remember – she is of age and consenting, hence it is not rape.

Anyway, who cares about the law? If pedophiles can declare that their “condition” should be recognized as a sexual orientation, then what is wrong with incest, right?

It’s like people who smoke cigarettes or do drugs. They are only causing harm to themselves and not affecting others. So let them be.

Why criticize something that doesn’t cause harm and violence on others? The best thing to do here is to live and let live. I’m sure their relationship will prevail through this challenge.

And in conclusion, I’d like to quote my favourite Shania Twain song:

“Ain't nothin' better

We beat the odds together

I'm glad we didn't listen

Look at what we would be missin'

They said, ‘I bet they'll never make it’

But just look at us holding on

We're still together still going strong.”

I have a daughter of my own so this is obviously a sarcastic reaction on my point. My hope is that no one becomes desensitised to issues like these. – November 22, 2013.

Source :

 http://fatbidin.com/

http://www.themalaysianinsider.com/opinion/zan-azlee/article/whats-wrong-with-incest-anyway

ये क्या है.....?

ये क्या है.....?

ये क्या है

चोली है

चोली में..?

कुछ नहीं है....

अगर चोली में कुछ नहीं बहेना...

फिर उभरा-उभरा है क्या कहेना....?

तू नियत का है बड़ा बेशरम हलकट

चल हाथ हटा और यहाँ से  परे हट

तू जानती नहीं ये है गाना सुहाना

अब  पूछ मुझे और सुन प्यारा तराना

ये क्या है...?

चोली है ...

चोली में

दो मम्मे है.....

ये मम्मे कैसे होते है....?

पंछी के चूजे जैसे होते है....

मान गई भाई क्या दी है मिसाल...

ओह पर यूँ न हाथ चोली में डाल....

क्यों डर के ऐसे दूर है भाग रही...

देख मेरी चड्डी कैसे है जाग रही...

ये क्या है..?

चड्डी है ...

चड्डी में...?

एक लोडा है.....

ये लोडा कैसा होता है...?

जैसे पागल घोडा होता है.....

बात तू बनाये बड़ी चालू भय्या....

अरे क्यों खींचे है यूँ मेरा साया

ये क्या है ?

साया है ....

साये में ....?

कुछ भी नहीं है

फिर तू काहे शरमा गयी रे बहेना...

अब पूछ मुझे और सुन मेरा कहेना

ये क्या है...?

साया है......

साये में ---?

एक बुर है....

ये बुर कैसी होती है...?

रसमलाई जैसी होती है...

बात तू बनाये बड़ी चालू भय्या....

अरे पलंग पर मुझे क्यों ले आया

ये क्या है...?

पलंग है---

पलंग पर...?

चद्दर है-----

 तू कुछ नहीं जानती है रे बहेना...

मेरी सुन के सीख क्या  जवाब देना

ये क्या है..?

पलंग है....

पलंग पर..?

होना दंगल है...

ये दंगल कैसे होता है...?

उड़ते बादल जैसा होता है

अरे काहे को उतारता  है तू कपडे

ये उतरते  देख फिर तू है क्या चढ़े..

ये क्या है.....?

धडके जिया है.......

ये क्या है......?

मज़ा नया है....

ये क्या है...?

पैर फैलाया है

ये क्या है...?

तीर टकराया है...

ये क्या है......

आह्ह.....आधा गया है..

ये क्या है....?

ऑह्ह... पूरा घुसाया है.....

ऑह्ह.... कैसे तडपाया है...

ऑह्ह ...धक्का लगाया है...

ऑह्ह....नशा छाया है...

ऑह्ह....पेच लड़ाया है...

ऑह्ह....जुल्म ढाया है...

ऑह्ह....प्यास  बढ़ाया है...

ऑह्ह ... रंग जमाया है..

ऑह्ह...  मस्त गड़ाया है

ऑह्ह.....जम के लिया है

ऑह्ह... कैसा भय्या है.....

बहेना को पेल दिया है....

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This beautiful work is by
Paolo Eleuteri Serpieri (born February 29, 1944)

 is an Italian comic book writer and illustrator, noted for his works of highly detailed renderings of the human form, particularly erotic images of women. He is best known for his work on the Druuna erotic science fiction series.

I do publish this artwork as tribute to the great artist. By any chance if copyright is getting violated –please let me know-  the artwork will be removed immediately –thanks.

Another face of Taboo :

Another face of Taboo : Japani face-

Ando’s joy brings up an old taboo

by Philip Brasor

Special To The Japan Times

The morning after TV Asahi’s evening news show “Hodo Station” ran an interview with figure skater Miki Ando on July 1, the media was buzzing over the revelation that Ando had given birth in April. The baby was not the ostensible reason for the interview, which focused on her athletic activities, and the way Ando referred to the event made it seem as if TV Asahi didn’t know about it beforehand, which is possible but difficult to believe. Ando may have done the interview at least partly to get the news of the birth out of the way before she starts training for a slot at the Sochi Olympics, and in that regard she was wise to choose “Hodo Station,” which is more discreet than the morning shows. In any case, she had to expect the reaction that followed since it was clear from the conversation that she is not married at present.

Most of the coverage has been centered on speculation of who the father is. Ando’s Facebook page and the Japan Skating Federation have reportedly been bombarded with derisive messages, which journalist Yoko Sakamoto, writing in Tokyo Shimbun, said could be expected because “Japanese people stress homogeneity” and resent anyone who is “different,” adding that such a “loud response would be unthinkable in any other country,” especially European ones, where out-of-wedlock births are “not uncommon.”

figure skater Miki Ando : unwed mother

But if the usual group of moral gatekeepers has emerged to vilify Ando, a fair number of people have also taken issue with the attention being paid. The weekly magazine Bunshun announced in its email magazine a plan to conduct a survey. “Do you support Miki Ando’s giving birth?” was the proposed question, though what they really wanted to know was, “Do you support her giving birth to a baby out of wedlock?” Readers complained that the questionnaire was in bad taste, and Bunshun canceled it. Porn-paraphernalia entrepreneur and essayist Minori Kitahara told Tokyo Shimbun that the backlash was motivated by “women who wouldn’t put up with it,” adding that “men have to change, but women also have to speak out” on the issue of illegitimacy.

In that regard, the timing of Ando’s announcement is significant. This fall the Supreme Court will rule on at least two cases involving the constitutionality of discriminating against illegitimate children. Japan’s Civil Code stipulates that children born out of wedlock are entitled to half the inheritance that a legitimate child receives. The United Nations Human Rights Committee has called the law discriminatory, but the government has maintained that it is necessary to preserve the integrity of the family.

The plaintiff in one case is a woman in her 40s who recently gave a press conference in Tokyo after testifying in court. When she was born her father was living with her mother but still married to another woman, whom he had left, along with their children. He never returned to his other family, and when he died the woman only received half the legacy that the children of his marriage received, even though she lived with him for a longer period of time. She felt “as if I were being told that my life was worth half of someone else’s. It was a situation I didn’t choose.”

Her lawyers recommended arbitration behind closed doors, where these kinds of disputes usually take place, because “the law can’t be helped,” but she insisted on fighting the matter in court, where it would receive public attention. She said that the law regarding illegitimacy is a “relic of the past.” In response, her father’s legitimate offspring released a statement saying that “our happy family was destroyed” when he took up with another woman and that they “struggled to survive,” so the law should support them. “We oppose the equal treatment of illegitimate children.”

As this exchange illustrates, the basis of the contention is more emotional than it is monetary or legalistic, which is why pundits are saying that the Supreme Court will find in favor of the plaintiff. In 1993 the Tokyo High Court ruled that the Inheritance Law was unconstitutional. The petty bench of the Supreme Court later overturned that decision, but only by a ruling of 3-2. In 2010, an inheritance case involving illegitimate offspring reached the grand bench of the Supreme Court for the first time, and legal experts expected it to knock down the petty bench precedent, but the involved parties settled before a verdict was reached. The cause for concern regarding two of the current cases is that in both the parents died in 2001, so if the court finds the law unconstitutional it means it was unconstitutional retroactive to 2001, and any similar court cases or arbitration that took place since then can be reargued, thus causing, as Asahi Shimbun put it, “social turmoil,” not to mention judicial chaos.

The Ministry of Justice first proposed removing the illegitimacy provision from the Civil Code in the early 1990s, but conservatives have blocked any proposed legislation, usually by tying it to the issue of allowing separate names for married couples, another change they oppose. What has shifted in the meantime is public opinion. Though the illegitimacy rate in Japan is only 2.2 percent, that’s twice what it was 10 years ago. The bashing of Miki Ando is vocal and aggressive, but it represents a minority. As the Hokkaido Shimbun recently noted in an editorial, “social discrimination against children born out of wedlock is on the decline,” so the courts and government are bound to remove the legal stigma of illegitimacy, which is the by-product of what Kitahara once referred to as “Japanese men’s poor sex attitudes,” examples of which are Osaka Mayor Toru Hashimoto’s once-stated belief in the necessity of “comfort women” during World War II and former Tokyo governor Shintaro Ishihara’s theory that North Korean abductee Megumi Yokota was probably some Pyongyang official’s mekake (concubine), a word that is also a relic of the past.

source : http://www.japantimes.co.jp/news/2013/07/20/national/andos-joy-brings-up-an-old-taboo/#.Uew_wIEux-M

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ये जो लोडा है उसका है काम

ये जो लोडा है उसका है काम

हसीनों का बस लेते हुए नाम

उठ जाए , हिल जाए हो जाए बदनाम

रहने दो छोडो अब जाने दो यार , चोदने का  न लेंगे नाम...

दिल है अगर पेलवाने का कोई हमसे ले ले

मेरे यार लंड से मगर किसी के न खेले

ये रुठ जाए तो क्या हो अंजाम.....

ये जो लोडा है उसका है काम

रहने दो छोडो अब जाने दो यार , चोदने का  न लेंगे नाम...

चुत है अगर तो वो तो मचलेगी

जो होगा सामने उसी का ले लेगी

दस्तूर है यही इतना ले जान

ये जो लोडा है उसका है काम

रहने दो छोडो अब जाने दो यार , चोदने का  न लेंगे नाम...

मम्मे दिखाते हुए जो कोई मिले

गांड लहेराते हुए जो कोई चले

नियत अपनी होनी है बेईमान

ये जो लोडा है उसका है काम

रहने दो छोडो अब जाने दो यार , चोदने का  न लेंगे नाम...

ये जो लोडा है उसका है काम

हसीनों का बस लेते हुए नाम

उठ जाए , हिल जाए हो जाए बदनाम

रहने दो छोडो अब जाने दो यार , चोदने का  न लेंगे नाम...

गरम बहना .....

गरम बहना .....

बहना मेरी गरमा  गरम फटाका है

जवानी में उसकी बला का झटका है

जो भी पहने, लगती मस्त  माल है

सारे उभार हिलाती हुई उसकी चाल है

झाड़ू लगाने फर्श पे जब वो झुकती है

कड़क-काले निपल की झांकी करवाती है

फिर जब मारती है वो बैठ कर पोंछे

पिछवाड़ा उभरता है जैसे भरा बगीचा  

नहाने के लिए जब जब वो जाती है

दरवाज़े की कुंडी लगाना भूल जाती है

दरार से किवाड़ की, करता भीगा दर्शन

थामे हाथ में लोडा, आँखों में नंगा बदन

नहा के आती बहार पहने पतला साया

भीगे-भीगे  चुतड पर जैसे हो चिपकाया

कूल्हे तो ऐसे मटकते जब वो चले

जी करे- चलो अभी खड़े खड़े ही पेले

ऊपर चढाती वो महीन- मिनी कुर्ती

दिखती आधी पीठ , और पूरी नाभि

बदन ठीक से पोंछ जब ड्रेस बदलती

ढँकती कम और है ज्यादा दिखाती 

बड़े बड़े मम्मे पर होता छोटा सा टॉप

जो भी देखे उसकी खड़ी कर दे तोप

फ्रोक ऐसा छोटा सा पहनती है, हाये

हवा का झोंका खिले गुब्बारे दिखलाये

घर में जब ऐसा मीठा मीठा हलवा हो

गोटे में जलन, चाहे आँखों को जलवा हो

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